Tips for living in shared accommodation

Living with others can be one of the most exciting parts of your student experience. Whether you’re sharing accommodation with friends or meeting new housemates for the first time, here are some helpful tips to make shared living enjoyable and stress-free.

1. Embrace Differences

Not everyone is the same, and that’s what makes shared living so enriching. Housemates will have unique habits, preferences, and lifestyles, which can lead to misunderstandings if not managed well. Instead of expecting everyone to think and act like you, take the opportunity to learn from these differences and find common ground.

If you're living with friends, remember that their habits at home might surprise you. Living with someone you just met? It could be a chance to build new friendships and broaden your perspective. Adjusting to differences is key to creating a harmonious shared space.

2. Keep It Clean and Fair

Cleaning standards vary, and misaligned expectations can lead to frustration. Avoid conflict by creating a clear cleaning roster from the start. Decide who will do what and how often - whether it’s taking out the rubbish, vacuuming, or wiping down communal surfaces. Equal effort from everyone will keep your space clean and stress-free.

3. Build a Bond

Good communication is key to a harmonious flat. When you move in, spend time learning about your housemates’ hobbies and values. Consider organising a regular housemate night - like a shared dinner, game night, or movie marathon. Building these connections early makes it easier to communicate and navigate any challenges that may arise.

4. Share Smarter, Not Harder

Agree on what items - (like milk, tea, or cleaning supplies) will be shared and what won’t. Some flats even choose to take turns cooking meals, which can save money and build stronger bonds. Regardless of your approach, clear communication is vital to avoid misunderstandings. If you need, look into labelling your personal items that won't be shared, to make sure it is clear for everyone.

5. Respect Common Spaces

Common areas like the kitchen and lounge are for everyone, so avoid taking them over for personal activities. Need to study? Head to a quiet study space within your UniLodge student accommodation, or head to uni, a park or local library instead. If you’re planning to host a friend for a social gathering, let your housemates know in advance and get their okay - it’s always better to ask than assume.

6. Meet in the Middle

Shared living is all about balance. Decisions often require group agreement, and sometimes the majority may go in a direction you’re not thrilled about. Voice your concerns openly and in person, involving all housemates in discussions to resolve issues quickly and amicably.

7. Give Each Other Space

Treat your housemates’ rooms as their personal retreat. Always knock before entering, and do not pry into their belongings or messages. Everyone appreciates their boundaries being respected.

8. Enjoy the Journey

Rules and routines are important, but don’t forget to enjoy the experience. Shared living can lead to lifelong friendships if you approach it with respect and a willingness to have fun. Laugh over shared meals, explore the local area together, and make memories that you’ll cherish beyond your UniLodge stay.

Living with others isn’t always easy, but with a bit of effort and understanding, it can be one of the most rewarding parts of student life.